Loves, it is here! The first holiday! We have been dating since the summer ended and now, we have been invited to Thanksgiving. I know you’re freaking out but don’t trip; your favorite relationship girlie is here for you. I got you, trust the process, and you will be the talk of the day.

It’s your first Thanksgiving with your new boo. You are probably asking yourself, what do I do? First thing first, good job. You got someone that is worth investing your feelings into. I got to salute you first before giving advice. Now that you got the first invite, your next move is to get that outfit. It is so important that you and your boo look good at dinner. The saying, “Your first impression is the last impression,” is crucial in this instance. Get that hair done, cut, twisted, etc. Get that makeup done, or if you are a makeup person, put on your best face. Okay, outfit time. Stick to the basics; keep it simple. Where something black, nude, brown (the basics) and look fly. Don’t forget that it is Thanksgiving, so be comfortable. Me personally, I would not wear anything tight.

Now, be yourself. DO NOT go and meet your boo’s family and act a fool. This is not the time to pick a fight with your siblings or, worst, get into it with your boo’s family. Trust me that will be your last invite. Your true self is the best idea. Come into the house warm and friendly. The truth to the matter is that, the family can see through phony behavior.

You’re cooking? Alright, let your girl help you here. If you can actually cook, then make your best side. Thanksgiving is the biggest food holiday in the United States. To be honest, this is one of my favorite holidays because I love food and gathering as a family. This is not the time to try something new. If you are going to cook, stick to your specialty. Trust me!

Lastly, enjoy yourself. This is an amazing opportunity to either meet your boo’s family or your boo meeting your family. For a healthy relationship to continue to advance, you have to meet each other’s family. Learning about where you’re boo comes from, or them learning about where you come from, is necessary. Be open to this opportunity and charge it head-on. You can do this! Good luck, lovely!

This was written by our contributing writer, Vonora Lewis.