Category: advice

  • Twenty Lessons I Learned in My Twenties: A Retrospective On A Chaotic Decade

    Twenty Lessons I Learned in My Twenties: A Retrospective On A Chaotic Decade

    Image Source: Unsplash- David Holifield By the time this article is published…it will have happened. I will have turned thirty, marking the end of a tumultuous decade. I laughed and cried and changed more in my twenties than I ever thought possible. I got married. I moved away from my hometown and back again twice…

  • Friends, How Many of Us Have Them?

    Friends, How Many of Us Have Them?

    Image Source: Unsplash- Leah Hetteberg Welcome to June, loves! We’ve officially made it to another summer. Over the past few months, we’ve talked about improving our relationships with ourselves and developing romantic connections, but we haven’t touched on friendships. Friendships can be beautiful, but also complicated, and today we’re going to talk about that. From…

  • Confessions of a College Student: Some Non-Advice

    Confessions of a College Student: Some Non-Advice

    This image was taken by Lauren DeSantis. I am not entirely sure how to go about writing advice like this. There is a HerCampus magazine chapter at my university where my fellow women write fun advice articles like “top ten songs” or “absolute skincare musts,” which I read as often as I eat breakfast during…

  • Aging Is Inevitable, Might As Well Have Some Fun

    Aging Is Inevitable, Might As Well Have Some Fun

    For better or worse, my mom let me watch a lot of (edited!) Sex and the City when I was a teenager. Of course, it was the safe-for-network television version on E!, so I never saw anything spicy until I rewatched it in my 20s, but that’s not what has stuck with me throughout my…

  • Springtime Fine

    Springtime Fine

    Happy Springtime, loves! Oh, how I have a love-hate relationship with spring. I love the season for its vibrant color palettes, the joy of sundresses, and, in my younger years, the excitement of spring break. And, of course, there’s nothing like a springtime romance. But on the flip side, I hate allergies. And when I…

  • A Feeling Of Helplessness

    A Feeling Of Helplessness

    Whether right or wrong, this is purely my perspective or, as Tony Robbins would call it, my hallucination.  And as my father, who is crude in his humor, would say, opinions are like assholes; everyone has one. Women are supposed to be strong. Whether it is the truth or not, that is what society says…

  • The Midnight Retrospection

    The Midnight Retrospection

    “The day you stop racing is the day you win the race.” This is the quote I read at 4 A.M. while scrolling through Instagram, which, perhaps, changed my life.  As a teenager, everybody around me, including myself, is always concerned with who I want to become. We’re too invested in who we will be…

  • Valentine’s Day Gifts

    Valentine’s Day Gifts

    Happy Valentine’s Day, loves! I hope your Valentine’s Day is full of joy and bliss. I hope you got your boo something for the day of love. Wait… You didn’t? Fear not, my friend; I am here to help you. I am going to provide you with a few ideas for that last-minute gift for…

  • Traversing The Quiet Season: How To Stay Safe While Winter Hiking

    Traversing The Quiet Season: How To Stay Safe While Winter Hiking

    While we find ourselves outside to enjoy the winter season to its fullest before it comes to a close, it’s advised to keep your safety, as well as others, in mind while exploring the snow-covered trails. As someone who hikes throughout the year, wintertime has been the most dangerous if one isn’t careful. Before heading…

  • Stepping Out Of Our Comfort Zones

    Stepping Out Of Our Comfort Zones

    We all have a Comfort Zone, a psychological state where we feel safe, at ease, and in control of the environment around us. It is within this Comfort Zone that we tend to avoid new experiences or challenges; instead, we stick to familiar activities.  These can include never missing a particular TV show, eating certain…