Tag: advice

  • How My Writing Journey Started

    How My Writing Journey Started

    My writing journey started about four years ago. My boyfriend and I, at the time, spent the weekends going off in his caravan. I needed something to do that I could easily pick up and put down, and wouldn’t take up too much room in such a small space. I remembered I’d dabbled in writing…

  • Search For A Job: It’s Not You, Stop Gaslighting Yourself

    Search For A Job: It’s Not You, Stop Gaslighting Yourself

    It’s well known that the job market is really bad. Despite the unemployment rate is 4.3%, a lot of people are struggling to find jobs. Many are listed on job sites like Indeed, LinkedIn, etc., but you don’t really know who’s actually hiring. There’s been an overflow of ghost jobs clogging up the job sites.…

  • What Working With Children Has Taught Me About Adults

    What Working With Children Has Taught Me About Adults

    During my teacher training, I remember observing a Year 5 lesson on enlightenment in Buddhism. Sat on a small chair at the back of the classroom, I heard a student say something that would eventually give me a lot to think about: “I’m changing religion! I wanna be a Buddhist and reach enlightenment!”  Now, there’s…

  • Sometimes It’s Not Worth The Fight

    Sometimes It’s Not Worth The Fight

    You will encounter people who try to provoke you. They enjoy fighting, they enjoy ruining your day, and they probably hate themselves. Not as much as they hate, you not responding to the invitation to argue. They feed off making you upset. Somehow, making others miserable makes them extremely happy. Learning when to walk away…

  • Relentless Reinvention: Why Becoming Must Be a Daily Discipline

    Relentless Reinvention: Why Becoming Must Be a Daily Discipline

    Written by Dhylles Victoria, Writer and Author of Relentless Reinvention: From Breaking Point to Breakthrough There’s a persistent myth woven into the way we talk about growth—the idea that one day, we will finally “figure ourselves out.” That we will arrive at a complete, stable version of who we are, and from there, life will…

  • I Second That Emotion

    I Second That Emotion

    Emotions are tools of the mind. They are neither positive nor negative. They just are. It’s how we acknowledge, manage, and express them that makes them helpful or unhelpful. I learned this the hard way over years of being told that I was too emotional. This typically came from men (bosses and husbands), and more…

  • Read, Write, Or Both?

    Read, Write, Or Both?

    Are you a reader?  Are you a writer? Are you both? I’m both!  I love words, pure and simple.  I love reading them, watching them dance across the page, conjuring images in my mind.  I love writing them, ideas from my mind flowing through me, out of my fingers onto the page! How about you? …

  • Things I’d Tell Twenty-Year-Old Me

    Things I’d Tell Twenty-Year-Old Me

    I’m in my forties now. I thought, “What would I tell twenty-year-old me?” So, for all the twenty-somethings and even thirty-somethings, this is for you! Sharing a little life wisdom from life lived, from my mistakes and victories. Enjoy that metabolism of an Olympic athlete. You will miss it when you are 40! Not that…

  • The Power Of No

    The Power Of No

    My mother used to say, “What’s the worst they can say?” No. She would say, ” You don’t know unless you ask! It hurts, and we get nervous; the fear of rejection is real. Quite often, it keeps us in the same place. We are too scared to move forward. No is not always a…

  • Springtime Romance: The Season That Teaches You How to Love Again

    Springtime Romance: The Season That Teaches You How to Love Again

    There’s something about spring that doesn’t ask for permission; it just arrives. Soft at first, almost unnoticeable, and then all at once everything is blooming, everything is stretching toward the sun, everything is reminding you that starting over is not only possible, it’s natural. Spring, for me, isn’t just a season. It’s an invitation. An…